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What happens when a woman past forty falls in love?


 

A woman past forty falls in love, maybe silently, maybe with a bold look. But that love is never adolescent—it has the weight of experience, the weariness of living, an unfulfilled desire to wake up anew. Their love is a slow reaction against being alone, hiding a thirst for friendship, touch, eye-to-eye understandingremains


But does love mean only emotional connection? No, their bodies speak too. A forty-something woman's body still harbors long-suppressed desires—things she may never have acknowledged, or had the opportunity to do. At this age, she learns to understand that her body is not a burden, but a right to be loved.


Yet, here comes an uncomfortable reality—sexual immaturity. Our society teaches women how to be 'good girls',How to control yourself, but not how to understand your body. As a result, many women past forty are not sexually mature, but rather hesitant, guilt-ridden. They do not know how to express their desires, do not know where to find their happiness.


Many people still think that sex is the fulfillment of men's desires, and women's role is only to tolerate. So when a woman in her forties finally likes someone, herAttracted to, then not only emotions, but also a kind of inner tension begins. Society, family, children, age—all together they are concealers. But the body cannot remain silent. He has his own language, his own wants. And when it first comes out loud, many feel a dilemma within themselves—am I doing it 'right'? At this age do I want these 'suitable'?


These questions suggest that a woman's sexuality is not yet fully her own. heStill ambivalent about his body, guilty about his desires. But women in their forties are most ready—for a deeper relationship, for emotional and physical understanding. But that opportunity of preparation is not given to him.


Yet, those who dare—learn anew, to love the body, to ask for it, to live with boundaries and respect. They know that love means changing yourself for someone elseNo—rather finding someone in front of whom you can completely match yourself.


At this age love comes deep, but comes through many dilemmas and struggles. Body, soul and emotions—all together find a way to survive in their own way. So the love of a forty-year-old woman is a new awakening, where many untold stories, unlearned lessons and belatedly wanting to learn are hidden!


The journey to integrating our emotions and our physical selves is perhaps the most authentic chapter of self-discovery. It’s about finding where we can be a complete match for ourselves.


I explore this delicate, powerful topic in my latest article. It's for any woman who has ever wondered, "Is it too late for me to feel this way?"


Read the full piece here: http://buymeacoffee.com/kabir1989


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