Even after being together for days, nights, months and years, why is there a lot of distance between them?
☑️ Some of my sisters ask me a lot of trouble, whose marriage age is one and a half or two years! Asking questions, their husbands don't give time anymore, don't talk. Does not want to hear anything, misunderstands, fights. What will you do?! I want to leave, but I love the man. Or have a child.
☑️ You tell me how to have a happy married life in our society? In Join family rules, can a girl represent herself to her husband if she wants to?
A man who works hard from five in the morning to 12 at night, then how can he give you happiness in bed when he comes in the middle of the night? Give an argument.
☑️How will he organize himself? Tie your hair up nicely, wear a matching hand blouse With a saree or a bangle, then maybe a call will come from the kitchen to make tea, set rice, make bread, set the table, so-and-so will come, so-and-so will go. Is it possible for a conservative minded girl to openly live with 10 people like this?
What needs to be done now? Like Zarina's mother should remove her saree bangles and lipstick and leave the bed room. After that, when the family leaves at night, is there any energy left to comb the hair a little?run? Or to wear a new dress!!As soon as I lie down on the bed, I feel like the bones are being joined, where the body is sinking, sleep comes and the eyes become aware of fatigue. What else do you remember about hard copy like Swami???
☑️After that, when youth starts to fade due to the death of desire day by day, our male partner no longer has the mind, the soul does not fill the type state.
Come to this place, you are from Khatta EnglishIf you want, you can draw examples from their lives like mother and aunts. Then I will also say, brother, the fathers and uncles of that era did not have mobile addiction, there were not so many aliens and office colleagues.
☑️Your father and uncle don't go for lunch once or twice a week with office beauty Ramni wearing strong perfume.
Again, if you say something about this, you sit up and say - I will not do a job for you?
☑️A statement of Maulana Tariq Jamil is very memorableLike - Joint family system destroys the relationship between our husband and wife. And this is why there is so much marital strife in our society. 14 people live in one room, bed like a workman then that person is criticized again, facing trial. The next house is said to be a girl, the boy takes his side, Oma Jadu knows if this girl is a charm or charisma, then whispers begin.
☑️What I say, all wives should wear such amulets. At least oneHalal relationship will be sweet. If you can do amulets, you should go to the underworld with your son-in-law. By doing this, you will be saved from these toxic brand family members!
One sister told me that one day in a week, my husband and I get a day off, but on that day, all 5 of my brothers and sisters come to our house. I don't even get a day to spend with my husband. He pressed the phone in the room alone and I prepared food for 15 people in the kitchen.
If I can't get him around at this age, will I need him at the age of shriveling?
☑️I just listened speechless and saw tears rolling down her cheeks. These waters will never go to waste I can guarantee.
✅・Another person said - Almost every day during the Fajr prayer, my mother-in-law came to the door of the room and started knocking loudly. Until we open the door. For Fajr prayer. What are the days of a married couple?Is there a condition to read Fajr? He does not understand? Or willed!
I asked one of my teacher's wife, sir, after 13/14 years of your marriage, Wahid (pseudonym age 3) had any brothers or sisters before that? I saw that his eyes were red, then he said - I did not find your sir. From the night of marriage, my mother-in-law used to knock on the door on the pretext of Tahajjud, but the door could not be closed for 3/4 years.
Then went to father's houseI went, declared war for separation, then after 8 years, if your sir had good sense, he took a house for me. And Waheed, my mother-in-law has not even taken her grandson. He started beating the little boy whenever he got a chance. Can you tell why this violence?
But Sir is an extremely religious person. Knows everything, understands everything, but mother is on knowing everything. You can't talk about it.
🥺I couldn't give any answer to this.
How many complaints are new to usGirls entering the world. Oh God, give peace to everyone.
One said, I bought a few shirts to wear in front of my son-in-law before marriage. But I didn't get the atmosphere to wear it. We are not so modern anymore that we are walking around in the streets after these things. I submitted that I will arrange everything for one person, but family life and imagination are the story of two poles. Neither the groom nor the house is mine here.
I wonder why Allah said that most of the women in hell are womenWill! Then I got the answer, some of them are nuns, some are mothers-in-law, some are aunts, some are aunts, some are aunts, some are cousins.
I made up my mind from this, InshAllah, I will not let anything like this happen to my sons. The girl who comes will get both her husband and her own house from the beginning.
I will do this work for my own benefit, at least on the day I stand before Allah, I will not have to take responsibility for losing someone's rights, Inshallah.
So what’s the way forward?
It begins with compassion—for your partner and for yourself. It’s about guarding moments of connection like precious treasures. It’s about honest conversations, even when they’re hard. And sometimes, it’s about courage—the courage to set gentle boundaries that protect your peace.
True intimacy isn’t about matching clothes or perfect moments. It’s about two people, in the chaos of life, choosing to see each other, hear each other, and preserve a quiet corner of the world that belongs only to them.
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