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Confession from a Distracted Work-at-Home Mom: The 10 Things That Actually Worked


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Let me be honest—I used to believe working from home meant more freedom.
What I didn’t expect was more distractions than ever before.
Emails. Social media. Housework. Cooking. Cleaning.
One minute I’d sit down to work…

The next minute I’d be deep-cleaning the kitchen or replying to messages that “couldn’t wait.”
Sound familiar?

Working from home—whether it’s a side hustle, freelancing, or running your own thing—looks easy from the outside. But managing time inside your own home?

That’s a real skill. And most of us are learning it the hard way.

So instead of pretending I had it all together, I started making small, realistic changes. Nothing extreme. Nothing perfect. Just habits that actually work in real life.

Here’s what made the biggest difference 👇

⏰ 10 Time-Management Shifts That Changed My Work-From-Home Life
1 – Get house work done before you start working.
For you, this may mean tidying up just before you go to bed, or first thing in the morning before you even open your computer and sit down to work.

I don't know about you, but my focus is greatly improved when I'm not staring at a sink full of dirty dishes and mess strewn about when I'm trying to concentrate on work!

2 – Close those open computer tabs!
In the past, I would work in one tab and keep my email and Facebook open in another. And predictably, when I saw a new email or Facebook notification light up in any of the open tabs, curiosity got the better of me and I'd go see what's up.

And sometimes whatever the notification was for would take me away from work for quite a while, depending on who I ended up emailing back and forth, or who I'd chat with on Facebook.

Needless to say, I've been much more productive only keeping the tab I'm working in open.

Remember that whatever it is can almost always wait. I figure if it's a real emergency, the people who need to call or text have my number.

3 – Stay away from your email and social media altogether if possible.
Check it when you wake up in the morning, again if you take a lunch break, and then don't bother to open it again until you're done working for the day.

Trust me, you will get so much more done!

4 – Turn off notifications on your phone.
Even if you've closed your tabs, you may find it too hard to resist checking notifications if it's lighting up every few minutes.

Just go into your settings and make it so your phone doesn't alert you constantly. Most phones now have a Focus Mode, Screen Time, or Digital Wellbeing feature you can use to mute everything that’s not essential while you’re trying to work.

5 – Allow only a certain amount of time for your breaks.
Sometimes my “breaks” end up taking so long that I just never get back to work for the day. It's a good idea to make a plan in advance on how long you're going to allow yourself to “break” during non-work times, and then make that a hard and fast rule.

If necessary, use a timer to time your breaks.

6 – Speaking of breaks, try the Pomodoro Technique.
I actually wrote about the Pomodoro Technique a long time ago. But basically, it's just a way of working in blocks of about 25 minutes, taking short breaks in between. It's very effective because it gives your brain much needed time to rest, and many people find they get a lot more done when they use it.

Note these short breaks in between your blocks of working aren't the same as the breaks I mentioned above when you're actually not working. These are just five minute breaks to let your brain rest while you're in the process of working.

7 – Be firm with your family when it comes to your working hours.
Your family and friends are well-meaning, but it can be hard to get them used to the idea that working at home still means work.

You may find that people will continue to call and drop in just as they always have, regardless of whether you're working or not. They will assume you can just stop what you're doing and hang out with them since your job is at home, but we know this isn't the case!

Let your family and friends know from the beginning that you have “office hours” and you will not be available during certain times. They will get used to it eventually, but it's best to make it clear from the start and be firm but polite about it.

Also if you have small kids at home or can only work odd hours, don’t feel bad about adopting a split shift approach. Working early mornings, naptimes, and evenings might be what works best for you right now, and that’s totally OK.

8 – Schedule out your work days.
I have found that if I don't schedule the weekdays out, lots of times they slip away from me without much to show for them in regard to productivity.

The schedule I like to follow is not reality all the time because life just doesn't allow for an exact timeline. As we all know.

Still, having a basic structure of how things should go in your head and following that as often and as closely as possible will help you so much!

9 – Use time management apps.
There are a ton of great apps out now that will help you manage your time if you struggle with trying to make yourself do it. TeuxDeux is a good one. And Google Calendar is basically priceless if you're on the computer a lot and don't want to forget things you need to do.

While this is not exactly a “time management” app or site, I am pretty obsessed with Workflowy, and I use it to basically organize everything inside my head, including my daily to-do list.

You can use it to make lists, and then create sub-lists (endlessly) for every list and sub-list. I've been using it for years and have become very dependent on it.

Other great options to look into: Notion, Trello, Clockify, or even ChatGPT for help creating quick plans or schedules. I have a list here with some other great time management apps.

10 – Make a meal plan.
I admit I don't always do this either. Sometimes me and my teenagers just fend for ourselves, or I get DoorDash to just bring us something! But when I do make a meal plan, I'm amazed at how it simplifies things! And saves money on fast food.

Without a meal plan, I waste a lot of time in the evening just trying to figure out what's for supper. It's a lifesaver when I plan it out on Saturday or Sunday, write it down, and stick it on the fridge so when that time of day rolls around, I know what I'm doing.

Please don't beat yourself up and feel like a failure if you simply cannot always manage time efficiently. Realistically, no one can make it work all the time because life just gets in the way.

All you can do is make the effort, but know going in that you will never always be successful because life never follows a perfect timeline.

🌱 A Gentle Truth You Need to Hear
You will never manage time perfectly.
No one does.
Some days will flow.
Some days will fall apart.
That doesn’t mean you’re failing—it means you’re human.
Progress comes from effort, not perfection.

💭 A Quiet Reflection
Working from home isn’t just about earning.
It’s about designing a life that works for you, one small habit at a time.

If even one of these shifts helps you reclaim a little focus or peace today—that’s a win worth celebrating 🤍

What’s one small change you could make this week to protect your focus? Share your goal with us! 💬

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I hope the tips above have helped you! Good luck!

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