Nowadays some girls (certainly not talking about good girls) are shocked when you hear the word virgin at the wedding. They think Virgin (virgin) is a crime to marry; Asking for the past of the daughter is a crime. Virginity or virginity is not important; Rather, menners are important. The words of Islam are also mixed as references with Gojamil Something
However, in the hadith, the earthly superiority of the virgin woman over the widow of the widow as a bride; So it is easily conceivable how much the status of a virgin woman will be than an adulteress Atita woman. (Obviously, women who are divorced or widowed in the examination of Taqdir are not talking, I am talking about the Virginity or the Nastad before marriage.)
◼ 'Aisha (Radiullahu Anha) one day Rasul 1.He said, "O Messenger of Allah! Suppose you have reached a field. There is a tree that has been eaten. And a tree that has not been eaten. Which of the leaves of the tree will you eat on your camel?
The Prophet replied, "The tree from which nothing was eaten."
The narrator said, "(Ayesha RadiAllahu Anhar) is the purpose of saying that the Prophet (peace be upon him) did not marry any virgin other than him (so heExpressed pride in his virginity). " [Sahih Bukhari, Hadith No.5077]
The Prophet (peace be upon him) said, "You should marry a virgin girl. Because they are sweet, pure uterus and are little satisfied." [Sunan ibn Majah, Hadith No. 1861]
When Jabir Radiullah Anhu married a widow, Rasul 1 said, "Why don't you marry a virgin girl? You play with her; she used to play with you. You make her laugh.He laughs at you too. " Then when Jabir RadiAllahu presented his own reason, the Prophet (peace be upon him) prayed for the newlyweds [Sahih Bukhari, Hadith No. 5367].
Ayesha Radiullah Anha was asked, "Which woman is the best?"
In reply he said, "The woman who does not understand the talk of speaking. Men don't even know about the banquet. The only one who has a heart of the heart. Just know how to decorate the husband, and herThe family is conservative in all things. " [Ragib Al Asfahani, Muhajirahul Udaba, 2/222]
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This implies that the male is naturally expecting a virgin girl. So, this is not a fault. Men who wished to get a woman in Fitrata1 Your body, the mind will keep everything for him. That is why Allah Ta'ala says about the Paradise Hurad in the Qur'an,
Hur Hur, protection in the tent. So will you deny some of your Lord? No genes and human have touched them before.
I created them in particular. Then I made them forever. (For spouses) loving and cool. ❞ [SurahAl-Waqiyah, Verse 72-74]
Thus, the feature of protecting virginity from nasty is certainly a matter of dignity for girls. And naturally every man wants to gain the honor of being a woman of such a woman.
Now come, 'Atita' is about to marry a woman, who has gone to her husband's deposit. It is better for such a woman to marry a man like her; Because he suits him. Allah says in the Qur'an
Cant Suitable for men; A bitch is suitable for a bitch; Sakritra is suitable for female good men and good men are suitable for virtuous women. They are sacred from what people say (slander); They have forgiveness and honorable living for them. [Surah An -Noor, Verse 35-37]
In explaining this verse, Imam ibn Taymiyyah Rahimahullah said:
◼ “For the characterless men in the characterless men, soThe characterless girl cannot be married for characteristic men. Because it is the final word of the Qur'an. Similarly, for the sake of good men. Therefore, no character can marry for a character. Because it is also contrary to the special declaration of the Qur'an.(Sura An Nur-26) ” [Tafsirul Muhasin At-Tawil, 1/3] .
Rasullah (1) said, "Anyone such a person is married to youYou are pleased with the proposal and the fanatics of El, and marry him (your daughters). If you do not do it, there will be disaster and widespread chaos on earth. " [Sunan ibn Majah, Hadith No. 11/4483]
In explaining the hadith, Imam Allama Shawkani Rahimahullah said, "This Hadith proves that there is a disbelief (equality) in terms of religious and character, it must be noticed at the time of marriage." [NilulAutar, 2/22]
So, the woman who bizarre should marry a bitch; Because he suits him. And the man who bizarre should marry a bitch; Because he suits him.
A characteristic man is never attracted to a bitch girl. Only the men of the bitch will want to marry the bitch girl.
❝ Marriage men are only married to adulterers or idolatersBy doing and the adulteress is the only adulterous or polytheist man. [Surah An -Noor, verse 3]
The Prophet (peace be upon him) said, "The adulteress on which the strap is planted may be married to him." [Abu Dawid, Hadith No. 1967]
However, according to the scholars, it is not guilty to marry her if the adulterous (a woman who has been honest before marriage) repents. However, it is a disrespectful act for human-festival is the Qur'an-HadithUnderstand from commentary.
So, if a feminine woman repents, she should marry someone who is similar to her; And if he does not, he should have the power to bear his past. Thousands of efforts in this age cannot be kept secret in the past; One day or one day, deception will be revealed. Therefore, it is better not to waste his life by pressing on a boy's neck unnecessarily.
The same applies to boys.
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*(Note: Hadith references simplified for clarity; always consult scholars for deeper study.)*
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