A baby usually stays with the mother from birth. Mother is his first school.
Therefore, the mother's role is more behind the ideal and honest child.
How big a child will be in the world, how good it will be, depends a lot on the mother.
That's why first of all mother should be aware. Appropriate steps should be taken with the goal of making the child a real human being and the effort to implement it properlyKeep trying.
Children are God's trust in the hands of parents, His blessings.
They will be given a thorough account on the Day of Judgment whether they were given good education or not.
Some mothers unknowingly become the cause of bad behavior in their children.
Ask the child to bring chillies, radishes, potatoes etc. from other's fields.
By doing this, the child gradually steps on the path of theft.
So every one as a responsible and conscious motherIt is very important to be careful with the steps.
It should be remembered that the first age of the child is the best time for correction.
After the birth of a child, certain responsibilities fall upon the parents according to the provisions of Shariah.
For example, Azan in the child's right ear and Iqamat in the left ear.
keep a good name Giving aqeeqah in seven days as possible etc.
These are some of the basic things after childbirth.
Then comes the phase of proper upbringing and education of the child.
And the important time to teach manners to children is when they learn to speak.
He will learn what is taught to him at that time. Tabei Ibrahim Attaimi Rah.
Said, they (companions) used to teach the child Kalima Talkin (teaching him to speak orally) when he learned to speak.
So that the first words of the child are La-ilaha illallah. (Musannaf Ibn Abi Shayba, Hadith 3519) Second, ordering the child to pray when he is seven years old.
Beating if necessary for not praying after ten years, which is proved by the hadith.
Then teach him the Quran. Quran should be taught at the age of seven.
Hazrat Maulana Ashraf Ali Thanvi.
"When the age of seven is fixed for the most important prayer, I think this age is the right time to start systematic education," he said.
And the person who teaches the Quran is the Messenger of Allahsaid the best person.
There is no parent who does not want their child to be the best.
Therefore, no one can be good without learning the Qur'an, which is the criterion for being good.
Even if he learns all the knowledge of the world without learning the Quran, that person cannot be called the best.
Therefore it is important to teach children the Quran first.
If the parents teach the child the Qur'an, then in the HereafterThey will have immense dignity.
It is described in the hadith Sharif, Hazrat Mu'az Juhani Radi. Said, The Messenger of Allah, may God bless him and grant him peace, said, "Whoever reads the Qur'an and acts on it, his parents will be given a crown on the Day of Resurrection whose light will be brighter than the light of the sun."
If that sun is inside your house. (However, the amount of light it emits will be greater than that of the crown.)
Then heWhat about the person who acted upon the Quran himself?
(Sunan Abu Dawud, Hadith 1448) Satsang is another good way to raise a child as a good son and a good citizen.
That is why the child needs to be kept in good condition first.
Allah says in Quran, "Be with the truthful." ’ The secret is, one can be truthful with truthful people, and fear of being liars with liars.
has It is proven and very real by Quran-Hadith, science and experience.
It is never right to let your children mix with bad natured boys and girls.
That's why it is important to be careful about money.
Bad association results in bad temper in children. Today's mothers say another thing that boys and girls don't stay at home but go out, that's why I bought a TV.
It should be noted that TV,VCDs are tools of destruction of character and faith.
There are countless cases of children being destroyed by these things.
So we have to figure out our own ways how we can save our children from them.
The above mentioned are some of the important ways of child idealization.
Apart from this, if the mother wants to raise the child as a true ideal, then she should involve the child in every job while he is still youngAccustomed to the Sunnah of the Messenger of Allah, may God bless him and grant him peace to make One way is to perform circumcision in front of him.
Reciting Masnoon Duas from place to place.
It will benefit yourself and the future of the child will be bright.
We can do this like this: * When the child wakes up, the mother recites the dua of waking up in front of him.
Although the child cannot read, but from this he developed a habitwill rise * When the child goes to the bathroom, keep an eye on whether he has put his shoes on or not.
If you don't have a hat or scarf-veil on your head, put it on.
Dua for going to and from the bathroom and other etiquettes will be recited by the mother out loud and he will memorize them by heart.
* In the case of clothes, the right foot should be put on before the right hand.
Same goes for shoes. In case of new clothes, teach him dua too.
* Saying while feeding children, they have to sit and eat in one place,If it falls on the ground,
it should be picked up and eaten cleanly and other manners of eating such as saying Bismillah, reciting dua, spreading the table should be taught. *
If you want to give or take something to someone, keep the shell in the right hand. Many children have a habit of not wanting to give anything to anyone.
So if you want to give something to someone, try to give it through the child.
Sometimes getting into the habit of giving something to his partner's children too.
By this heThe quality of giving to others will be created.
* As a guest at home, he will greet and greet the child as well. *
If a work is done through a child, he will immediately say Masha Allah.
If something is lost, it will teach you to say Innalillah.
Be it a very trivial thing.
In such a way that what has to be said like Jazakallah, Alhamdulillah, Insha'Allah etc.
is taught seriously.
Duas are like in placesTry this automatically.
By this the child will become habit of dhikr.
* Do not wear clothes with pictures. Don't forget to urinate towards the west.
* If you abuse someone or hurt someone, ask for forgiveness from him immediately.
So that he understands the injustice and develops the virtue of asking for forgiveness.
Also take care not to misbehave with the work people. *
Teaching manners with as much humility as possible.
of humilityWhat is done by is not done by rigor. That's why it should be taught with humility rather than harshness.
It is the responsibility of both parents to teach the above manners.
As many great people we see in the pages of history, mother's contribution is more behind this success.
And the mother is the first teacher of the first school for the child.
So the mother should be vigilant and responsible in every aspect of the child.
Islamic poet Allama IqbalHe used to say that even after coming back from abroad, when I haven't forgotten Allah, I hope I won't forget it again. When people used to say, Iqbal!
How can you remember Allah even after seeing the glitter of the field?
He used to say in reply, I did not forget Allah in spite of all the blessings of Muhammad Surma-Islamic education which my mother instilled in my eyes during that childhood.
Child mentality, meditation, perception, sense-belief, taste-education, nature-civilization,Gentleness and virtue are not so easily inculcated by anyone else as a mother can instill in her child.
May Allah Ta'ala grant tawfeek to every woman to be a conscious and responsible mother.
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