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19 Things to Know and Do in a Relationship

1. Choose your partner wisely: Never start a relationship with someone who has no direction. If you're already in a purposeless relationship, it's time to end it.

2. Not all relationships lead to marriage: If you notice red flags, especially abuse—whether physical or verbal—leave. Staying in such a relationship could lead to frustration or worse, an untimely death.

3. Go beyond fun outings: While hanging out with your partner at malls, cinemas, or beaches is good, discussing the vision of your relationship is essential. Your partner should support your goals, or you may find yourself stuck in an unfulfilling life.

4. Focus on one partner: Avoid juggling multiple relationships. It's better to commit to one person rather than risk ending up with none or the wrong one.

5. Discuss everything openly: In relationships, all topics are important. Be open about your past and weaknesses, but use wisdom when sharing secrets.

6. Define relationships clearly: If someone has been caring for you but you're not interested, make your feelings clear as soon as possible to avoid misunderstandings.

7. Watch for commitment: If your partner is secretive or distant, it’s a red flag. If they're making private calls and hiding things, it may be time to move on.

8. Seek advice if necessary: If you’re over 30 and haven’t been in a serious relationship, consider seeking counsel. Time waits for no one.

9. Avoid cohabitation: Until you're married, avoid living together, spending weekends, or engaging in premarital sex. Upholding your values is essential.

10. Don’t treat your partner like an ATM: Relationships are about mutual support. Don’t constantly rely on your partner for financial support. You can contribute to outings and gifts too.

11. Keep your relationship private: Your relationship details, whether good or bad, should stay between you and your partner. Seek advice only from a trusted mentor if needed.

12. Avoid destructive behavior: Don’t engage in relationships with married people. Also, don’t expect perfection—everyone has flaws. Work on improving together.

13. Handle breakups maturely: If a relationship ends, don’t become enemies or share personal secrets. Move on peacefully and focus on your future.

14. Don’t rush into relationships: If the right person hasn’t come along, be patient. Don’t marry for superficial reasons like someone’s job or status.

15. Look for signs of seriousness: If your partner isn’t introducing you to family or friends after years together, it might be time to rethink the relationship.

16. Make your own decisions: While advice from others can be helpful, the final decision on whom to date or marry is yours. Be careful and thoughtful in your choices.

17. Keep your relationship exciting: It’s okay to pray together, but balance spirituality with fun activities like games and outings.

18. Choose healthy activities: Instead of going to clubs or indulging in unhealthy habits, take your partner to enriching activities like swimming, music, or language lessons.

19. Work on personal growth: Set time aside regularly to address any rough patches in your relationship, whether it’s communication issues, bad habits, or personal flaws.

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